Why Letting Go of Shame Feels So Hard

And When Sitting Meant Stepping Down

October 29, 2025

Maybe the journey isn’t so much about becoming anything. Maybe it’s about un-becoming things that aren’t really you, so you can be who you were meant to be in the first place.

Paula Coelho

It Really Is Quittin’ Time

Halfway there, friends. The inbox is still full, the coffee’s gone cold, and the weekend feels like a rumor.
So let’s pause the grind and fill your brain with something better—three stories to spark a smile, a thought, or maybe a chat with someone who gets it.

Because doom-scrolling is easy. Curiosity takes style.

TODAY’S PICKS

Why Letting Go of Shame Feels So Hard

It’s not just forgetting what you did—it’s forgiving the person you became. A psychologist explains why self-forgiveness is tougher than it sounds and how we can start.

When Sitting Meant Stepping Down

In the ’60s and ’70s your living room might have included a literal drop. Why were sunken rooms once considered chic — and didn’t stay that way?

The Countries Where “Please” Doesn’t Exist

Turns out, politeness doesn’t always need a “please.” These countries prove good manners can sound totally different—and maybe even simpler. Curious how?

Are you kinder to others than you are to yourself?